pkg/filter(ticdc): ignore ddl in ddl_manager (#10518)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #10518

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #10524

What is changed and how it works?

ignore ddl in ddl_manager, and the behavior of TiCDC in ignoring create/delete/truncate/alter DDL scenarios is as follows:

1. After a table or partition is created, TiCDC synchronizes the new physical table.
2. After a table or partition is dropped, TiCDC does not synchronize the deleted physical table.
3. After a table or partition is truncated, TiCDC does not synchronize the deleted physical table, and synchronizes the new physical table.
4. After the Alter table or partition ddl, CDC still uses the schma of the new table to parse data.

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Tests

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• Integration test

Questions

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Release note

`Fix the issue of cdc does not synchronize related tables after ddl was filtered`.

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