Fix data inconsistency caused by default value

[maxshuang]

What problem does this PR solve?

This is a manual pr merge(#3846 #4224 #3930)

Issue Number: close #3793 #4223 #3929 #3918

Release note

Support more data types with default value attribute, and fix potential data inconsistency caused by default value logic

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