sink(cdc): handle sink errors more fast and light (#8949)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #8949

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #8657

What is changed and how it works?

Handle sink errors more fast and light, without rebuilding the whole changefeed.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

Release note

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/merge

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Commit hash: 3d1caa8

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/test verify

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/test cdc-integration-mysql-test

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/test cdc-integration-mysql-test

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