feat(frontend): support alter source refresh schema for shared source

[xxchan]

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What's changed and what's your intention?

follow up of #19649 (#19063). basically the same

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[xxchan]

• feat(frontend): support alter source refresh schema for shared source #19740 👈 (View in Graphite)
• feat(frontend): support alter add column for shared source #19649
• feat(meta): support replace source #19650
• refactor(meta): generalize replace table to replace job #18935
• refactor(meta): unify DdlType and StreamingJobType #19630
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[xiangjinwu]

https://buildkite.com/risingwavelabs/pull-request/builds/64241#0193b9e7-fcdd-43e5-9618-93b6866b6b30

e2e_test/source_inline/kafka/protobuf/alter_source_shared.slt .. [FAILED]
failed to run `e2e_test/source_inline/kafka/protobuf/alter_source_shared.slt`
Caused by:
    query result mismatch:
    [SQL] SELECT COUNT(*), MAX(age), MIN(age), SUM(age) FROM mv_user_more;
    [Diff] (-expected|+actual)
    -   25	104	0	510
    +   0 NULL NULL NULL
    at e2e_test/source_inline/kafka/protobuf/alter_source_shared.slt:74

[xxchan]

I think this is the same issue as #19681 (comment)