chore: update dependencies

[nolanlawson]

Details

Updates our non-breaking dependencies. There are a lot of breaking dependencies, but those should be handled separately IMO.

Does this pull request introduce a breaking change?

• ✅ No, it does not introduce a breaking change.

Does this pull request introduce an observable change?

• ✅ No, it does not introduce an observable change.

[nolanlawson]

I removed this iltorb hack because it's too hard to maintain. It breaks every time you run yarn upgrade-interactive. Also this was just a hack to make yarn install faster.

The long-term solution is to remove bundlesize entirely because it seems unmaintained. I'll do that separately.

[nolanlawson]

tada: #3146

[nolanlawson]

Updated the snapshots. Apparently Babel gets rid of double-newlines now. I don't think we care.

Also Jest has a new warning:

● Validation Warning:

  Unknown option "preset" with value "ts-jest" was found.
  This is probably a typing mistake. Fixing it will remove this message.

  Configuration Documentation:
  https://jestjs.io/docs/configuration

This is caused by jestjs/jest#13576 and hopefully will be fixed in the next Jest release. For now, we can ignore it.

[nolanlawson]

/nucleus ignore --reason "downstreams failing for unrelated reason"