docs(DEVELOPER_GUIDE): Make getting started comprehensive and reorgan…

…ize (opensearch-project#3421)

* docs(DEVELOPER_GUIDE): Make getting started comprehensive and reorganize

Enhance getting started guide for new contributors
- Add key technology breakdown with links to code guidelines
- Add robust prerequisite guide
- Clarify forking workflow
- Explain bootstrapping
- Distinguish between recommended and optional/alternative steps
- Add OS-specific guidance
- Add tarball usage instructions

Make other developer guide improvements:
- Update TOC
- Remove callout linking to EUI docs
- Reorder code guidelines
- Standardize header capitalization and make usage guide headers imperative

fixes opensearch-project#3396

Signed-off-by: Josh Romero <rmerqg@amazon.com>

Signed-off-by: Josh Romero <rmerqg@amazon.com>
Co-authored-by: Miki <amoo_miki@yahoo.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sinclair <david@sinclair.tech>

CHANGELOG.md

@@ -124,6 +124,7 @@ Inspired from [Keep a Changelog](https://keepachangelog.com/en/1.0.0/)
 - [Doc] Add readme for global query persistence ([#3001](https://github.com/opensearch-project/OpenSearch-Dashboards/pull/3001))
 - Updates NOTICE file, adds validation to GitHub CI ([#3051](https://github.com/opensearch-project/OpenSearch-Dashboards/pull/3051))
 - [Doc] Add current plugin persistence implementation readme ([#3081](https://github.com/opensearch-project/OpenSearch-Dashboards/pull/3081))
+- [Doc] Improve DEVELOPER_GUIDE to make first time setup quicker and easier ([#3421](https://github.com/opensearch-project/OpenSearch-Dashboards/pull/3421))
 - Correct copyright date range of NOTICE file and notice generator ([#3308](https://github.com/opensearch-project/OpenSearch-Dashboards/pull/3308))
 
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