Fix React warning with useGeometry deps array

[axelboc]

Introducing a breaking change in the signature of the useGeometry hook to fix #1684

The problem came from passing false or undefined as the value of the params parameter in order to skip updating the geometry (e.g. when the R3F object is hidden). I change the signature of the hook to decouple this feature from the params parameter: the hook now accepts a config object as fourth argument (which also makes the isInteractive boolean more explicit).

[loichuder]

Sorry, looked at this but forgot to approve