Fix animatedRef on Fabric (#4445)

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## Summary

- Fixes #4256

### Problem

If the scrollable component is not root, UI `scrollTo` doesn't work on
Fabric.

#4384 - It was fixed here for Paper, but after this change app crashes
on Fabric, because `getScrollableNode` in both architectures returns
viewTag as a number, not component. It's working for Paper, because we
are passing either component or number to `findNodeHandle` method, but
on Fabric we need component ref.

### Fix
 
Instead of `getScrollableNode`, we can use `getNativeScrollRef` and get
scrollable reference.


### TODO

Unfortunately this method is not implemented yet for `Flash-list` ->
https://shopify.github.io/flash-list/docs/usage#:~:text=Unsupported%20methods%3A
so for now, UI `scrollTo` on FlashList works only for Paper
Architecture.

## Test plan

ScrollToExample:

- Paper, ScrollView
- Paper, FlatList
- Fabric, ScrollView
- Fabric, FlatList

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Co-authored-by: Tomek Zawadzki <tomasz.zawadzki@swmansion.com>

src/reanimated2/hook/useAnimatedRef.ts

@@ -10,6 +10,7 @@ import {
 } from '../shareables';
 
 interface ComponentRef extends Component {
+  getNativeScrollRef?: () => ComponentRef;
   getScrollableNode?: () => ComponentRef;
 }
 
@@ -19,6 +20,15 @@ function getShareableShadowNodeFromComponent(
   return getShadowNodeWrapperFromHostInstance(component);
 }
 
+function getComponentOrScrollableRef(component: ComponentRef): ComponentRef {
+  if (global._IS_FABRIC && component.getNativeScrollRef) {
+    return component.getNativeScrollRef();
+  } else if (!global._IS_FABRIC && component.getScrollableNode) {
+    return component.getScrollableNode();
+  }
+  return component;
+}
+
 const getTagValueFunction = global._IS_FABRIC
   ? getShareableShadowNodeFromComponent
   : getTag;
@@ -31,11 +41,7 @@ export function useAnimatedRef<T extends ComponentRef>(): RefObjectFunction<T> {
     const fun: RefObjectFunction<T> = <RefObjectFunction<T>>((component) => {
       // enters when ref is set by attaching to a component
       if (component) {
-        tag.value = getTagValueFunction(
-          component.getScrollableNode
-            ? component.getScrollableNode()
-            : component
-        );
+        tag.value = getTagValueFunction(getComponentOrScrollableRef(component));
         fun.current = component;
       }
       return tag.value;
@@ -50,7 +56,6 @@ export function useAnimatedRef<T extends ComponentRef>(): RefObjectFunction<T> {
       },
     });
     registerShareableMapping(fun, remoteRef);
-
     ref.current = fun;
   }