Add ability to specify initial state for size control

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Proposed changes

This is needed for Ringdown transition. Previously it was hard-coded to use Initial. Now you can specify any of the ones coded up.

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• The code is documented and the documentation renders correctly. Run
  make doc to generate the documentation locally into BUILD_DIR/docs/html.
  Then open index.html.
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• The PR lists upgrade instructions and is labeled bugfix or
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