Update docker github actions

[kidder]

Proposed changes

The actions for building a docker container need to be updated

Upgrade instructions

Code review checklist

• The code is documented and the documentation renders correctly. Run
  make doc to generate the documentation locally into BUILD_DIR/docs/html.
  Then open index.html.
• The code follows the stylistic and code quality guidelines listed in the
  code review guide.
• The PR lists upgrade instructions and is labeled bugfix or
  new feature if appropriate.

Further comments

[nilsvu]

What was the problem? And have you tested the new version?

[kidder]

It failed to deploy a container, with the following errors:

[Build and deploy](https://github.com/kidder/spectre/actions/runs/9271381958/job/25506598463#step:6:13169)
buildx failed with: ERROR: failed to solve: process "/bin/sh -c apt-get update -y     && apt-get install -y python3-pip python-is-python3     && pip3 --no-cache-dir install pybind11~=2.6.1     && pip3 --no-cache-dir install -r requirements.txt -r dev_requirements.txt     && rm requirements.txt dev_requirements.txt" did not complete successfully: exit code: 1

Build and deploy
Node.js 16 actions are deprecated. Please update the following actions to use Node.js 20: docker/setup-qemu-action@v2, docker/setup-buildx-action@v2, docker/login-action@v2. For more information see: https://github.blog/changelog/2023-09-22-github-actions-transitioning-from-node-16-to-node-20/.

After updating, the actions, I am able to deploy a container

[nilsvu]

Ok great! What was the error in the pip install? I think I tried recently and it wanted to build wheels for h5py for some reason and failed, was that the error here too?

[kidder]

The only error message I could see was the one above... After I updated the actions I didn't get an error