Enable BBH ID control of CoM and Padm.

[iago-mendes]

Proposed changes

With recent changes to the calculation of the center of mass and linear momentum integrals, we are now ready to enable their control by default. We also take this opportunity to set the control residual tolerance to 1.e-4 instead of 1.e-6, which makes more sense given that junk radiation effects are on the order of 1.e-3.

For an equal-mass non-spinning case with default settings, the control loop currently reaches the residual tolerance in just 3 iterations. In human time, this takes ~17 minutes on 1 node of CaltechHPC.

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Further comments

[nilsvu]

Please add a comment here that this should be just below junk radiation effects on the controlled parameters

[iago-mendes]

Done!