Fix resuming jobs will make job failing into failure

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part of #3875
fix #3067

Here we take resume != failure, this is aligned with batch job, more general, resume OP should be idempotent which means we can suspend/resume for arbitrary times.

Further discussion is Should we reset the retryCount instead?

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