fix: update Publish retry backoff settings

[amfisher-404]

Change default RetrySettings to use a multiplier of 4 instead of 1.3, to address aggressive retry on RESOURCE_EXHAUSTED errors. (Unfortunately, we can't set different retrySettings per error code.)

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Fixes #1685 ☕️

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