added richness to useless peer disconnect reasons

[macfarla]

PR description

Added various specific messages for useless peer disconnects so they can be logged more clearly.

Fixed Issue(s)

Fixes #6897

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[macfarla]

example log - inbound and outbound

[DEBUG] 2024-04-08 05:48:49.669 [nioEventLoopGroup-3-7] AbstractPeerConnection - Disconnecting connection -228412499, peer 0x7b588b8860c3f43a... reason 0x03 USELESS_PEER_NO_SHARED_CAPABILITIES No shared capabilities
2024-04-08 05:48:54.587+00:00 | nioEventLoopGroup-3-2 | DEBUG | AbstractPeerConnection | Disconnecting connection 1999510985, peer 0xd59915c057ac5473... reason 0x03 USELESS_PEER_NO_SHARED_CAPABILITIES No shared capabilities
[DEBUG] 2024-04-08 05:48:54.587 [nioEventLoopGroup-3-2] AbstractPeerConnection - Disconnecting connection 1999510985, peer 0xd59915c057ac5473... reason 0x03 USELESS_PEER_NO_SHARED_CAPABILITIES No shared capabilities
2024-04-08 05:49:19.741+00:00 | nioEventLoopGroup-3-1 | DEBUG | EthProtocolManager | Disconnect - Inbound - 0x03 USELESS_PEER  - 0x7fe70140169a8328... - 2 peers left
[DEBUG] 2024-04-08 05:49:19.741 [nioEventLoopGroup-3-1] EthProtocolManager - Disconnect - Inbound - 0x03 USELESS_PEER  - 0x7fe70140169a8328... - 2 peers left
2024-04-08 06:14:17.442+00:00 | nioEventLoopGroup-3-1 | DEBUG | EthProtocolManager | Disconnect - Outbound - 0x03 USELESS_PEER_USELESS_RESPONSES Useless responses: exceeded threshold - 0xa3435a0155a3e837... - 1 peers left
[DEBUG] 2024-04-08 06:14:17.442 [nioEventLoopGroup-3-1] EthProtocolManager - Disconnect - Outbound - 0x03 USELESS_PEER_USELESS_RESPONSES Useless responses: exceeded threshold - 0xa3435a0155a3e837... - 1 peers left
2024-04-08 06:14:17.442+00:00 | nioEventLoopGroup-3-1 | DEBUG | AbstractPeerConnection | Disconnecting connection -1223704849, peer 0xa3435a0155a3e837... reason 0x03 USELESS_PEER_USELESS_RESPONSES Useless responses: exceeded threshold
[DEBUG] 2024-04-08 06:14:17.442 [nioEventLoopGroup-3-1] AbstractPeerConnection - Disconnecting connection -1223704849, peer 0xa3435a0155a3e837... reason 0x03 USELESS_PEER_USELESS_RESPONSES Useless responses: exceeded threshold
2024-04-08 06:16:59.488+00:00 | EthScheduler-Services-42 (importBlock) | DEBUG | EthProtocolManager | Disconnect - Outbound - 0x03 USELESS_PEER_BY_CHAIN_COMPARATOR Lowest by chain height comparator - 0xac906289e4b7f12d... - 0 peers left
[DEBUG] 2024-04-08 06:16:59.488 [EthScheduler-Services-42 (importBlock)] EthProtocolManager - Disconnect - Outbound - 0x03 USELESS_PEER_BY_CHAIN_COMPARATOR Lowest by chain height comparator - 0xac906289e4b7f12d... - 0 peers left
2024-04-08 06:16:59.488+00:00 | EthScheduler-Services-42 (importBlock) | DEBUG | AbstractPeerConnection | Disconnecting connection -625070788, peer 0xac906289e4b7f12d... reason 0x03 USELESS_PEER_BY_CHAIN_COMPARATOR Lowest by chain height comparator
[DEBUG] 2024-04-08 06:16:59.488 [EthScheduler-Services-42 (importBlock)] AbstractPeerConnection - Disconnecting connection -625070788, peer 0xac906289e4b7f12d... reason 0x03 USELESS_PEER_BY_CHAIN_COMPARATOR Lowest by chain height comparator