rfq+tapchannel: track locally accepted quotes in manager #2695

Job	Run time
Format check	13s
cross compilation	3m 45s
Docker build check	3m 0s
Compilation check	37s
run itests	6m 51s
run itests postgres	13m 27s
Lint check	2m 22s
go mod check	17s
Sqlc check	17s
RPC check	1m 9s
test vector check	41s
run unit tests (unit-race)	6m 16s
run unit tests (unit-cover)	2m 31s
run unit tests (unit dbbackend=postgres)	4m 31s
	45m 57s

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