dep(*): remove usage of tidb-tools/pkg/{dbutil, utils}

[lance6716]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #11121

What is changed and how it works?

When cherry-pick this PR to release branches, remember to pick the fix PR of pingcap/tidb#53357 to tidb as well

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 48.57143% with 54 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 57.5536%. Comparing base (1c7c9ae) to head (38b114d).
Report is 7 commits behind head on master.

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engine	63.3808% <100.0000%> (+0.0070%)	⬆️

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[3AceShowHand]

/retest

[3AceShowHand]

/retest

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Timeline:

• 2024-05-20 06:25:36.224849905 +0000 UTC m=+2066489.981985475: ☑️ agreed by 3AceShowHand.
• 2024-05-21 01:37:15.220921769 +0000 UTC m=+2135588.978057342: ☑️ agreed by asddongmen.

[lance6716]

/approve

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[3AceShowHand]

/cherry-pick release-7.5

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-7.5: #11154.

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@3AceShowHand: new pull request could not be created: failed to create pull request against pingcap/tiflow#release-7.5 from head ti-chi-bot:cherry-pick-11122-to-release-7.5: status code 422 not one of [201], body: {"message":"Validation Failed","errors":[{"resource":"PullRequest","code":"custom","message":"A pull request already exists for ti-chi-bot:cherry-pick-11122-to-release-7.5."}],"documentation_url":"https://docs.github.com/rest/pulls/pulls#create-a-pull-request"}

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/cherry-pick release-7.5

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-8.1: #11418.