refactor(plan_node_fmt): further prepare generic code where they use fmt_with_builder

[ice1000]

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What's changed and what's your intention?

This is a folllow up of #10132.

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Codecov Report

Merging #10155 (d52614c) into main (2e33fef) will decrease coverage by 0.03%.
The diff coverage is 30.08%.

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- Coverage   70.88%   70.86%   -0.03%     
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  Files        1234     1234              
  Lines      211234   211316      +82     
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+ Hits       149734   149740       +6     
- Misses      61500    61576      +76     

Flag	Coverage Δ
rust	70.86% <30.08%> (-0.03%)	⬇️

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...frontend/src/optimizer/plan_node/generic/filter.rs	83.67% <0.00%> (-16.33%)	⬇️
...tend/src/optimizer/plan_node/generic/hop_window.rs	80.26% <0.00%> (-12.87%)	⬇️
...ntend/src/optimizer/plan_node/generic/intersect.rs	54.16% <0.00%> (-7.74%)	⬇️
...rc/frontend/src/optimizer/plan_node/generic/mod.rs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
.../frontend/src/optimizer/plan_node/generic/union.rs	91.17% <0.00%> (-8.83%)	⬇️
...rc/frontend/src/optimizer/plan_node/generic/agg.rs	82.64% <40.00%> (-3.18%)	⬇️
...rontend/src/optimizer/plan_node/generic/project.rs	97.16% <77.27%> (-2.35%)	⬇️
.../src/optimizer/plan_node/generic/dynamic_filter.rs	96.92% <100.00%> (+0.07%)	⬆️

... and 7 files with indirect coverage changes

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